This story has been all over the news the past couple of days. Although I, personally, don’t have my kids in childcare, I have thought about it from time to time, whenever I let the idea of going back to work linger in my mind. The study basically shows how ‘quality’ child care at a very young age is linked with ‘smarter teens’.
Hmmm….so what difference does this make to those of us whose kids aren’t in child care?
I started thinking about my own feelings about child care.. In my mind, it didn’t matter what this study showed. Kids are always better off with me right? I mean, I’m their mom. It doesn’t matter what this study ‘proved’….I KNOW my kids are better off with me…
Or are they?
If we think back 1400 years ago (give or take), wasn’t there another human being who was also in ‘child care’ who grew up to become the most amazing human being that was ever created? Actually, he (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) didn’t even have child care, it was more like boarding school….until the age of FOUR! Can we even imagine such a thing?!
I’m not saying that there are not benefits to time spent with mothers…I’m simply saying that perhaps, before we pass judgment or form our own opinions, we open our minds a little more and reflect….